Getting back together with an ex boyfriend can be challenging. On the other hand, getting back with an ex that has already moved on may seem daunting. So, it possible? Yes, definitely. Will it be hard? Yes to that too, but again, not impossible.
Here are some tips on how you can get your ex back:
1. Look your best.
Sometimes, some ladies who feel too comfortable in their own skin forget that they should still take care of themselves. Have a haircut that will emphasize your features, hair color that brings out the color of your eyes and complements your skin tone, and workout to look and feel better. Any ex who sees that their former girlfriend looks great immediately realizes that they have lost a woman that is definitely a catch.
2. Keep in touch with your ex.
Remind him of how you started as just friends, and that staying as such will be nice. Talking about the good times youve had in the past is also a great way to remind him of how great and fun it is being with you. Casually mention things that you like and appreciate about him. Note: Make sure that how its said does not sound desperate or needy. A lady who wants to get back with an ex boyfriend should never sound desperate.
3. Be the friend who cares and is always ready to listen.
It may seem sneaky for some people, but being an exs the confidante is one sure way of getting to know what he really wants. Knowing more about what your ex likes and doesnt like will paint you a clear picture of what went wrong in the past.
4. Take the time to reflect.
Remember all the previous arguments and the why they started. If these are things that can be worked on, do it. It is true that true love requires acceptance, but a lot of negative traits or experiences drive people away. Work on being a better person and it shall be seen by the surrounding people, including your ex.
5. Play a bit hard to get.
If after doing all the previous items and your ex says that he wants you back, dont jump right into his arms. Instead, tell him that it is something that requires a lot of thinking. One thing that most men like is the "chase." In the end, theyll realize how much of a treasure you really are.
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